I (Amanda) just finished reading through John MacAthur's book Successful Christian Parenting, which I borrowed from my pastor's library (thanks Pastor Matt), and I thought I should post something helpful I learned from the book. The book was somewhat interesting and used tons of biblical support for each point on parenting. However, the chapter I found most insightful was the appendix in the back titled "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam" by Phil Johnson. He prefaces with the biblical principle found in Deut. 6:6-7 and offers five practical principles to remember as you teach your children spiritual truth. Here they are:
1) Understand that children can grasp the essence of almost any truth.
He urges us to not hold back on teaching children all scripture. While they may not get some concepts or terminology, we should still teach them the biblical truth taught in any passage.
2) Avoid figurative language and unexplained symbolism
Children think literally and often we try to evangelize them by metaphors. Instead, we should try to be more precise in explaining faith as complete trust and unconditional surrender.
3) Clearly separate reality from fantasy.
Children are often overexposed to cartoons and fairy tales. Make sure they know the difference between make believe and the truth and miracles of the Bible.
4) Find out what your children are thinking.
Debrief your child after Sunday school or church. Find out what they are learning and their thoughts on it.
5) Don't expect them to get the lesson the first time.
Children need repetition and review. Go over biblical truth with your children.
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